Be glad your wife even goes to the gym and makes an effort to keep in shape and look good. Many women don’t. Somedays it’s hard, you have multiple things to do, pain from menses, bloated, and feel like that extra 1-5 lbs of water weight is 50 and doin’t want to be seen at the gym bc you gained water weight.

I think you should be more appreciative.

I agree, one should maximize their effort at the gym, and be efficient. But even so, many gym exercises can be efficiently done at home, push ups, are a great workout for amny body parts and do increase muscle mass.

Why don’t you ust attend the aerobics class if it’s such a big deal.

Areyou not see results as in she is gaining or not maintaining her weight? t could be eating patterns as well.

Be a litle more kind and not untrusting and paranoid. It will be positive for your marriage.